Three Catholic Women and Bob

It's 2 a.m. on Friday morning and I cannot sleep. I'm thinking about last night's visit (Thursday, March 22, 2018) to Emerald City. Every once in awhile there is a definite theme to my visit to Emerald City and the other surrounding bridge communities of people. Last night's theme seems to be, of all things: Catholic Women!

I'm going to share these three short stories with you in the order that they happened. 

Natalie

The first Catholic woman is Natalie. Natalie and I met on June 17, 2017, in what was known as "The Tracks" of Kensington. 

I've learned a lot about addiction and homelessness from Natalie as we have had various discussions and as I have witnessed her life over these months. As I reference at the very top introduction of this blog series, from time to time I change the gender of the person in the story as well as the name so as to help maintain the highest level of privacy. Natalie has actually been written about far more times than what is obvious.  Keep in mind that Natalie is not her real name.

I saw Natalie last night and shared with her the possibility of a wonderful program to help her get her life put back together in the ways that she has told me she wants it to be. Natalie is a brilliant young woman and a deep thinker with a deep Faith that is very buried under her current lifestyle.  Hanging over Natalie's head is a jail sentence for a situation that goes far beyond explanation in this blog. Suffice it to say that Natalie has a big decision to make. She can go to a very specific detox and rehabilitation program or she can go to jail.  The mysterious power of addiction, that none of us on the outside of addiction can possibly understand, has her wondering what to do. 

Please pray for Natalie.

Diane

"Diane" is someone who I have written about a few times in the past referencing her deep Devotion to our Lord. In the early days of her time on the street, she attended Mass every single day as much as she possibly could. She told me last night that she has not been to Mass for quite some time and misses it.

Diane cries as she thinks about doing what she feels she must do to raise funds for her addiction that she despises. Each and every time she references what she needs to do, she tears up and refers to such moments as leaving to go humiliate herself.

This young lady is something of a fine porcelain doll in appearance. She appears as though she could be easily broken. Her lifestyle requires her to be on guard for her own physical safety at all times. She carries a knife and has had to threaten to use it a few times as 'men' have tried to do unspeakable things to her.

About a week ago one of the students from the Studies in Urban Ministry Program at Urban Hope Church gave me a Christian book called Jesus Calling for me to give to a specific person within Emerald City.  I knew Diane would love this book. I found her about an hour later. When I handed it to her and she saw the title, tears ran down her cheeks. She knows how much her Lord loves her. 

Please pray for Diane.

Emily[1]

The 3rd Catholic woman is a brilliant and fun to chat with poet with a deep and natural smile. "Emily" is by far the most discreet person in Emerald City. The activities of her life that are trying to hold her there are activities that I don't think I've ever actually seen her do. I've told her a time or two that I can't figure out why she's there. Emily reads these blogs which gives me a unique opportunity to sometimes speak directly to her here.

Last night you shared with me something about you and God.  In the course of that conversation, all of the elements of what has become known as the traditional prayer of confession and acceptance of Our Lord were found in our conversation. And so I tell you my good Catholic school friend, I know that our Lord is working on bringing you healing. Our Lord wants the absolute best for you. I am very thankful for that conversation and all of the interactions that we have had. I am looking forward to seeing how our Lord is going to guide you and bring you into something new and rich and exciting.  I'll see you Sunday!

Please pray for Emily.

Bob

And then there is "Bob" (See 'Detox Bound' in this linked blog.)  I've known Bob for months. I have listened as a determination has grown within him to put this lifestyle behind him.

Eight days ago that determination bloomed into action. Later today I will pick him up to leave for a detox facility far from The Temptations of Kensington. It is an absolute privilege to come alongside Bob in his moment of action and to provide whatever support I can as he moves into this new life.  

UPDATE: As of 3/23/18, Bob is no longer a resident of the streets of Kensington.  His new life has begun!

For people who have been on the street in this lifestyle for a length of time, the whole idea of detox and rehab can actually be a frightening thought. Some people say that they don't know how to be normal anymore. I've heard this comment from men and women.

Please pray for Bob.

It has been an incredible privilege to come alongside these three women who often fear for their lives on the streets of Kensington for reasons that are unique to women on these streets. The men of Kensington face other dangers and many of them have shared those concerns with me as well. 

Please pray for all of these people.

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[1] When choosing a blog name for this woman, I knew I needed to use the first name of a famous poet.  With a bit of research, I read this about Emily Dickinson and knew I found a great name for this lady poet who I've known for months.  Emily Dickinson: You can't do without her: those leaps of idea between one beautiful, surprising phrase and the next. Mysterious, ferociously original, poignant and evocative: the power of pure thought compressed to diamond.  PS: "Emily," since you read these blogs, if you'd like another blog name, let me know.

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Blog Analysis Addendum: Three Catholic Women and Bob

Original Blog Title: Three Catholic Women and Bob

I. The Human Narrative: The Buried Brilliance

This narrative focuses on the intellectual and spiritual depth of those living under the bridge. You describe Natalie as a "deep thinker" and Emily as a "ferociously original" poet whose life on the street seems almost incongruous with her character. Then there is Bob, whose "determination bloomed into action," leading to his departure from Kensington on March 23, 2018. The "visceral element" here is the underlying fear: Natalie’s "mysterious power of addiction" that makes her hesitate even when faced with jail, and the "frightening thought" of being "normal" again after so long on the street.

II. The "Lynne’s Laws" Article and Section Review

This story identifies a critical need for Article 8, focusing on "Intellectual and Spiritual Preservation."

Article 1, Section 1: The Medical Necessity and Parity Mandate. Natalie’s hesitation is a textbook example of "Executive Function Impairment" caused by SUD. Under this mandate, the system would recognize her indecision as a symptom of her illness, requiring a patient advocate to help her navigate the choice between the program and jail, rather than leaving her to wonder in the dark.

Article 2, Section 3: The Predatory Environment Emergency Provision. Diane’s need to "threaten with a knife" and her fear of "unspeakable things" is a clear violation of a patient's right to safety. This provision would mandate her immediate extraction from the street once her safety risk is identified.

Article 8, Section 1: The Intellectual Property and Identity Protection Act (New).

• The Law: Recognizes that patients like Emily (the poet) and Natalie (the deep thinker) possess "Intellectual Assets" that are being destroyed by systemic neglect. It mandates that rehabilitation include "Identity Restoration," providing access to creative outlets (writing, art, education) as a core part of the medical treatment plan to help patients "know how to be normal" again.

• The Application: For Emily, the system would prioritize her "poetic voice" as a tool for recovery, ensuring she isn't just a "Medicaid number" but a person whose "pure thought" is valued.

III. The Professional Tension and Consensus

• The Supportive View: Occupational therapists and neuropsychologists agree that "Recovery of Self" is just as important as "Recovery from Drugs." They support Article 8 because meaningful work and creative expression reduce relapse rates by giving the patient a reason to stay "clean."

• The Skeptical View: Budget-conscious administrators might see "poetry programs" or "faith-based advocacy" as "extras" that the state shouldn't fund in a basic detox setting.

• The Lynne’s Law Resolution: This is a Long-Term Success issue. If Bob or Natalie don't learn "how to be normal" and don't reconnect with their "buried faith" or "brilliance," the "drift" back to the street is almost certain.

IV. Legislative "Teeth": The "No-Drift" Tracking Standard

• The Objective Standard: Every patient entered into the Lynne’s Law System is assigned a Permanent Patient Advocate.

• The Mandate: If a patient like Natalie or Emily "drifts" away, the state is required to maintain an active "Vulnerable Person" search until they are located. They are never "expunged" from the system just because they moved to a different bridge.

V. The Prevention Savings

By facilitating Bob’s "Exit" and protecting the "Intellectual Assets" of Natalie and Emily, the state saves on:

• The "Lost Potential" Cost: The astronomical social cost of a "brilliant" mind being permanently sidelined by the street.

• Judicial Costs: Diverting Natalie into a program saves the state the $40,000+ per year cost of incarcerating her.

VI. The Corrected Path

Under Lynne’s Laws, the "Update" on Bob would be the standard, not the exception. Natalie’s "big decision" would be supported by a clinical team that understands her "mysterious power" of addiction. Emily’s poems would be written in a well-lit room, not a "discreet" corner of Emerald City. The "drift" that has left you wondering where they are today would be replaced by a Continuum of Care that ensures no "Diamond" is ever lost under a bridge again.

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